Negative
Goal:
I need to stop taking care of people. |
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Positive
Goal:
Ill learn to take care of myself, instead of caring for
others and hoping theyll take care of me.
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Negative
Goal:
I need to get away from my crazy family. |
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Positive
Goal:
Ill maintain my identity and composure when Im
with family members.
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Negative
Goal:
I need to stop doing the crazy stuff that people always do in
my family. |
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Positive
Goal:
Ill understand the legacy given to me from
previous generations, so I can decide what to hold on to and what to let go of.
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Negative
Goal:
We want to stop yelling and fighting so much. |
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Positive
Goal:
Well learn to talk to each other in a way that
encourages honesty and expresses the love and respect we feel for each other.
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Negative
Goal:
I want him [or her] to stop working so much. |
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Positive
Goal:
Well find a better balance of work time and family time.
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